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Should we do a post on how to host a family trip? Or even a romantic getaway? LET ME KNOW BELOW!

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SIDE NOTE: I think by now I am a PRO at family vacations and well… vacationing in general. Andrew and I had our parents, siblings, grandparents, cousins and significant others all on one trip!

Seeing the joy on their faces and the ability to connect in real time is priceless. There is nothing more rewarding than being able to spoil the very people that have made my life so meaningful. I understand that this is not the norm for most, which is why I don’t take any of this for granted.

It’s one of our greatest pleasures to spend time with our family in remote locations. Now, this was only HALF of my family, the other half, if you remember, I spent January with them in Costa Rica earlier this year. This past week we flew 28 of our family members to Hawaii for a family vacation. Ok, this literally has nothing to do with today’s topic but I thought I’d let you know my current situation and since we are girlfriends and I love sharing my bougie finds sometimes. It tastes better when you’re not looking at the price… EEEK! I LOVE the Nickel and Nickel Sullenger, and the Patz & Hall Chardonnay it’s the perfect balance. I’m not a big Chardonnay drinker but if I’m gonna have one, it has to be chilled, dry, crisp and buttery. That’s exactly what we discuss in today’s episode.Īs I write, I am looking out at the ocean (in Kona, Hawaii) and sipping a Chardonnay.

Bye Bye now!!! And watch your happiness bloom.How are we supposed to handle negative people who are addicted to problems? So as I close out the blog, let’s all take a moment and say “BYE” to all the negativity in our lives. But moving on from it, realizing that not everything is in my control and that sometimes okay all the time, it’s better to just remove the NEGATIVE NANCY. Allowing the negative feelings and emotions will not, would not, nor has it ever made it better. As I write this I’m already feeling so much better. So allowing this person or an event to take control of who you are and your well being is ridiculous. It’s easier to finger point, blame and make excuses than it is to resolve their own inner turmoil. The majority of the time, someone attacking you with issues or blame are really just very unhappy with themselves. And I am stronger than anyone attacking me with negativity. I have a wonderful husband, amazing strong willed children, a beautiful home, security, an amazing group of women who support me in my coaching business. I will not allow negative energy to drain me of all the positive I have. Hopefully if there is anything positive to be garnered that is. But why can’t we cut the negativity out, walk away and just realize that the issues will always work themselves out in the long run? Eventually. Why do we allow negativity to affect us so? I know we are human and emotions are normal and to be honest needed. Like really? Come on She-Hulk smash!īut it brings me to my topic today. I’m more upset that I can’t seem to drag myself out of it. It’s so easy for my own emotions to get caught up in someone or something elses’ misguided and hateful issues. But isn’t that just the way of life and society? It really feels that way. More than anything I am disappointed.īecause I have once again allowed the negative words, thoughts or actions of someone else to dictate my own emotions. So this morning I woke up with some ideas bee bopping around and thought, this is it! I’m going to write my blog today! Hahaha said the Universe or did it? How about just a change of topic.Īs I sit here typing I am livid. Nothing new or of interest coming in, just a bunch of jumbled up mess fighting for the exit. I’ve had writers block the past few weeks.

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